What a joy it is to watch confident children under the age of 10 at playgrounds or at social events! They make new friends quickly, are color-blind (to race and gender), approach adults with sincerity, are uninhibited, and look at the future with wonder.
When I take my 8-year-old granddaughter out to a playground or the beach, it amazes me how quickly she makes new friends with other children. There is no judgment, no hesitation, no sizing up of the other -a simple sharing of time, energy and fun for the duration. It is nice to see children who are color-blind (not sensitive to racial differences) and gender neutral playing together as fast friends.
Somehow, between childhood and the teen years, we lose this trait of accepting others at face value, replacing it with judgment, scorn, racism, sexism and “society” rules that keep us from easily mixing with people we don’t already know.
It also amazes me to see how freely children will dance to music – they seldom care whether anyone is watching or judging their moves. Somehow we gain so many inhibitions when we grow into adulthood. Inhibitions stick with us for a lifetime – at least until we are so old we no longer care.
Any newspaper I pick up (globally) is filled with stories about disagreement and hate in today’s world, and I long for and wonder what happened to the children we were yesterday. Can you remember what it was like to be uninhibited and free of judgment? Can you imagine what our world would be like if adults were more childlike and could accept each other at face value? Racism, sexism, ageism, and other biases are learned behaviors – can you imagine how incredible life could be if we fostered acceptance instead of discrimination?
We need more childlike behaviors in our world today (not the childish ones we so often see). What do you think?
Just food for thought on the first Monday of spring.
Have a good week,